Thursday, June 11, 2015
"The Reckoning" by MaryLu Tyndall
Saturday, November 29, 2014
"Tears of the Sea" by MaryLu Tyndall
A book review of "Tears of the Sea" by MaryLu Tyndall
Have any of you ever wondered what it would be like to live in a fantasy world? To be a mermaid or to have things like spells and curses a part of every day life? Well you have to wonder no more! MaryLu Tyndall once again created a master piece in which I was thoroughly impressed.
Perdita
Perdita was cursed by an evil warlock Forwin to be a mermaid, wandering aimlessly, being alone for all eternity. The curse has a chance of being broken every 10 years, when Perdita becomes a human once again for one month. Her goal, to find a man who is willing to die for her. All she desires is to once again be a human, have a chance at love, family, and acceptance. Just when she is about to give up all hope, and once again attempt to rid herself of the never ending suffering she must live through, knowing she will never be loved, she sees a chance to make a difference in one mans life.
Savion Ryne
Having been deceived by a beautiful woman and kicked out of his father's kingdom to join in the battle against Nata, Savion has resolved to never again trust a woman. Savion's greatest desire is to once again impress his father and make him proud, bringing him back to live in Nevaeh. To do that he knows he must complete his mission of helping others, but when, where, and whom must he help? Savion gets tossed out to sea during a storm, and awakens mysteriously on a beach healed and having vague memories of a beautiful mermaid tending his wounds. Soon after, he meets a woman begging for protection, and he can't help but feel he has met her before.
Every moment Perdita spent on shore she spent trying to sell her beauty to men, trying to get them to pledge their love for her, promises that were never kept. These men slowly stole her joy, her will to live. After 300 years Perdita had given up the hope of ever being loved. After meeting Savion, a man unlike all others she had met before, she begins to question her tactics at making others fall in love with her. He seemed to be able to resist her beauty and all attempts she made to make him love her, therefore making her wonder if she had lost her ability at making others fall in love with her. She was soon to discover that love was not what she had expected, and nor was it something that she had ever experienced fully before.
I'm not going to lie, I wasn't sure what to expect when I picked up this book. MaryLu Tyndall is known for her gripping tales and incredible reads, but she has never before ventured into the realm of fantasy. And this is where I can tell you that I was thoroughly impressed.
From the moment I picked the book up I was unable to put it down. I know I have said this before, but I read the book in one sitting. Why? Because the characters were believable, the way they reacted to situations was realistic, and the feelings expressed were relatable. The struggle that Perdita went through, the feelings of unworth and abandonment are very real, and very present in our day and age. I couldn't help but feel drawn to what she was going through, to relate my relationships with the lives that she had lived. I couldn't help but compair the choices I had made in life with the choices Perdita made continually, and forever ending in her being abandoned by those who claimed to have loved her.
If you look deeper than the surface of this book you may find that there is a message of hope, a chance at redemption, and a sacrifice for love. This isn't a normal read, a normal book, or a normal message. I hope you take the time to pick up Tears of the Sea and learn about one man and one woman's struggle to find acceptance and to find love in a world that seemed so unforgiving and forsaken.
-- I received a copy of this book from the author and was asked for my honest opinion. I am under no obligation to give a good review of this book --
Thursday, October 30, 2014
Cinnamon Raisin Harvest Muffins
You know when you have that extra apple on the counter or in the fridge drawer that is just starting to get wrinkly and soft, and the thought of eating it is no longer appetizing? Well I had one of those on the counter this morning, and I figured out exactly what to do with it. I made this amazingly delicious muffins!
Cinnamon Raisin Harvest Muffins
2 c. almond flour (you can use any variation for this - I used 1/2 C brown rice, 1/2 C gf flour bend, and 1 C almond flour)
1 T. coconut flour
1 T. cinnamon
1 1/2 t. pumpkin pie spice
1/2 t. baking soda
pinch of salt
1/2 c. pure maple syrup
1/3 c. coconut milk
3 eggs
1/4 c. coconut oil (I had to melt mine)
1 peeled, cored apple - shredded
1 c. raisins
Note: I used an equal mix of coconut sugar and cinnamon to sprinkle on top of the muffins after baking.
1. Preheat the oven to 350 degrees. Line muffin pan with paper cups (yields 12 muffins)
2. Stir all the dry ingredients together in a bowl (except raisins)
3. In a larger bowl, mix together all wet ingredients. Shred the apple with a cheese grater and add to the wet ingredients.
4. Pour the dry ingredients into the bowl with the wet ingredients and blend well. Mix in the raisins.
5. Pour mixture into muffin pan and bake for 20-23 min (checking with a toothpick).
6. Remove from oven and sprinkle with cinnamon dry mixture while still warm. Cool before eating.
7. Keep refrigerated or frozen.
Wednesday, October 01, 2014
Grain Free Garlic Rosemary Flat Bread
Tuesday, September 02, 2014
Apple Pie
½ cup Palm Shortening (I used Virgin Pressed Coconut Oil)
1 egg ⅔ cup water
½ tsp salt (or season to taste)
2 tsp sugar or alt. sweetener for desserts if desired (or sweeten to taste) (I used Xyla sugar)
2. Add in Shortening (or butter), and mix until crumbly (I used my hands)
3. Add in Egg and mix until well incorporated - mixture will still be crumbly
4. Add Water by stirring in 1 TBSP at a time until dough holds together for rolling - better a little moist, then too dry.
5. Cut Mixture in Half and roll into 2 balls (one for each crust or topping). (I put the extra ball into the freezer until next time as I only have one pie pan)
6. Shape dough balls into disc with floured hands and place onto a sheet of floured parchment or wax paper.Cover with an additional sheet of parchment or wax paper. Roll crust out to slightly larger than your pie tin.
7. Remove top parchment/wax paper and Slip hand gently under the bottom paper to flip into pie tin... carefully peeling back the paper as you press it into the pan. Don't worry if it breaks apart a little, you can always press it together and it will look great!
8. Crimp edges of crust to make a decorative edge... or top with an additional crust layer after adding your pie filling.Pierce bottom slightly with fork (and slit top layer with knife to vent).
9. Pre-Bake for approx. 15 minutes at 425 degrees.
10. Allow to cool for 10 minutes before pouring in the apple filling.
1 cup of sugar (I used Xyla sugar and it actually tasted pretty good)
1/4 tsp ground nutmeg
1/4 tsp ground clove
1/4 tsp ground cinnamon
dash of salt
1/4 tsp vanilla
1/4 cup cornstarch (or if you do not have cornstarch you can use 1/3 cup of sifted flour adding slowly)
5 small Granny Smith apples, cored, peeled and chopped (I used golden delicious apples and I didn't peel them)
2. Add apples and vanilla and simmer on low about 5 minutes. Remove from heat and pour into the pie crust.
2/3 cups flour (I used Perfect Flour Blend by a company I can't remember)
1/3 cup brown sugar (I used Coconut Palm Sugar)
Saturday, August 23, 2014
"Abandoned Memories" by MaryLu Tyndall
The third book of MaryLu Tyndall's series "Escape to Paradise" won't disappoint with its incredibly gripping tale. Set in 1866, the newly settled colony of New Hope can't seem to catch a break with disasters striking from all sides, and old memories seeming to take form before their very eyes.
Angeline Moore
Although she seems like the epitome of a perfect lady, something dark and sinister remains hidden from sight. She is running from the past and from the law, and with New Hope being her last hope, Angeline is desperate to reshape who she is before her secrets are found out and she is once again an outcast. With Wiley Dodd's repulsive glances and strange visions from her past, Angeline's new life is threatened more than she thought possible. Will she be able to turn to God and allow His forgiveness to make her clean, or will she be forced to leave her new home behind and return to the filthy streets of her past.
James Callaway
A doctor, a preacher, a drunk? James is hoping to put his past behind him and become the spiritual leader of the colony, but with no other doctor around, he seems to be forced to fill a role that he no longer feels he can do, and his strange reactions to those situations is threatening the good opinions of those in the colony. James is determined to create a utopia in Brazil, an area without immorality that was on every street corner back home, and ruined his life, and he hopes to stay on the right track with Angeline Moore at his side; a refined woman. With the bizarre disasters that keep striking the colony, James is pushed to the limit to discover what spiritual forces are at work before it destroys them all. Will James be able to overcome his fear of doctoring, his fleshly weaknesses, and become the spiritual leader that he has failed to become before?
Angeline's opinion of James is uncertain, but James wants to change that. He doesn't understand her distrust of him, and why she keeps spurring his advances. When her secrets are threatened to be revealed; being the one thing that will turn James away from her once and for all, she resolves to never allow them to become involved, turning him away from her life forever.
Something is strangely amiss in New Hope, and is setting the colonists on edge: haunting visions, crypts with chains beneath an ancient temple, an archaic Hebrew book. With the murder of one of their own, the colonists begin to believe that they have been brought to Brazil to defeat an evil that is wreaking havoc on the colony and the place they have begun to call home. Are they right? Is there an ancient evil, that if released, will destroy the known world?
I read MaryLu's latest book in one sitting... literally! I sat down after supper and didn't put it down until I had finished. For some reason all of her novels have affected me this way, and I wouldn't have it any other way.
Once again MaryLu has created an amazing read, full of biblical truths and worldly issues that is absent in Christian fiction today. Too often I put down the book, wondering if the main characters are followers of Christ, or they are just Church goers in our world. I want to be challenged in my faith, given an example of how to live, and given biblical examples to compare my life to. I want to read a novel that challenges me to read more of my bible than I do of novels, which is hard to find now-a-days.
Killer ants, mysterious wolves, flash floods, and visions seem the last of their worries when the colony is visited by pirates and the lives of those they love have suddenly been threatened with their lives. Definitely a book I recommend to read as you will have a hard time putting it down as you will find yourself relating to those in the book and the struggles they face.
Sunday, August 03, 2014
"The Ransom" by MaryLu Tyndall
Betrayed by her father's health and her brother's immaturity, Juliana is forced to try to run the family business in order to pay the bills. In a world where women are considered a wall flower, not capable of intelligent thought, Juliana struggles to hide her day to day activities, all while her brother is determined to spend all of her hard earned money at the gambling tables. To top it all off, she seems to have acquired an unwanted suitor who is threatening to uncover her secrets. There seems to be only one man who can help her, Lord Munthrope, someone she considers to be a buffoon, and she may be forced to accept his bizare engagement to stave off the rumors that being to encircle her life.
Disenchanted with the world as his infamous father, Captain Edmund Merrick Hyde, one of the most feared pirates in Port Royal, raised him to believe in, Alexander steps away from the family faith and sets out to create his own destiny. The Pirate Earl is the man he becomes upon the Caribbean seas and in the dark alleys of Port Royal, but the pleasures no longer satisfy as they once did, and Alex becomes more desperate to find a way to stave off the emptiness lodged in his heart, all while battling an enemy from the past who threatens to take his life.
Not-So-Princess Lizzy
Friday, January 24, 2014
"Elusive Hope" by MaryLu Tyndall
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| http://marylutyndall.com/books/elusive_hope |
Nothing but sparks fly when Hayden Gale and Magnolia Scott are within a couple miles of each other. Two people who are seeking something completely different, but somehow find a way to work together out of desperation to achieve their goals.
Magnolia Scott
What is a Southern belle doing in the jungles of Brazil and what would her fiance think if he saw her now, perspiring and swatting flies? Yuck! Magnolia doesn't intend to wait to find out. She is bound and determined to make her way back to everything she deems important; stunning gowns, gorgeous balls, and marriage to the man she thinks will save her.
Hayden Gale
Nobody but Hayden knows what he is doing in Brazil, and he would like nothing better than for it to stay that way. He is bound and determined to find his father and make him pay for the life that Hayden has to live. Hayden is positive that his father murdered his mother, and will do anything to bring him to justice, or is it revenge?
MaryLu Tyndall has done it again, she has captured her audience with a gripping tale of two people that professed to despise each other, but in reality aren't that different after all. They are both in a desperate search to find someone, Magnolia her fiance, and Hayden his scoundrel of a father; both will do anything necessary to reach that goal, including lying or possibly even stealing.
The moment I started reading her book I couldn't put it down. I am not saying this because I like to read, or because all of MaryLu Tyndall's books have turned out to be fantastic reads with deep biblical messages. Just the opposite. I loved her other books, but when I read a book I look for a difference in characters and a connection to the reader. One thing that I despise most is when the hero of a book, or the main male character, is alway the same. He reacts the same, says the same things, or makes the same decisions. Hayden Gale is quite a different character. He does everything opposite of a gentleman, because in all honesty, he isn't one.
I can always count on MaryLu Tyndall starting a book off with a splash, and in Elusive Hope, the second book in the Escape to Paradise trilogy, it literally is a splash! Her words gripped me in this telling tale in Brazil... and when I say gripped, I mean it. I started reading right before I went to bed, and ended up not falling asleep until I was finished. Suffice to say, it was a good thing I didn't have to work the next day.
I don't know how she does it but I could feel the sweat dripping off my back and the flies buzzing around my head as I read Elusive Hope. She also brought me so much closer to my relationship with God, really bringing home the message that God is our father, and that He cares intimately for each and every one of us. Both Hayden and Magnolia had difficult lessons to learn about God and His saving power and grace; MaryLu Tyndall is one of the best at painting that trying tale.
There is only one way you can really dive into Elusive Hope, and that is to find it somewhere, whether that is in your public library, in a book store, online to order a paper copy, or even an eBook version. I'm telling you it will be worth it!
For now I'm signing out,
Not-So-Princess Lizzy
Monday, July 15, 2013
“Forsaken Dreams” by MaryLu Tyndall
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| http://www.marylutyndall.com/151 |
Friday, May 17, 2013
Asparagus Risotto
Asparagus Risotto
1 T. Olive oil
1/2 c. Chopped onion
1 c. Sliced fresh mushrooms
1 1/2 c. Arborio rice, uncooked (I used basmati and it worked fine, I just had to add more liquid)
2 t. Grated lemon peel
2 1/4 c. Condensed chicken broth (I used Presidents Choice Organics Chicken Broth)
1 1/2 c. Water
1/2 c. White wine (I didn't have any, and therefore used more water)
3 c. Cut fresh asparagus, 2 inch (2.5 cm) pieces
1/3 c. Water
1 t. Salt
1 t. Pepper
1 t. Basil leaves
1 t. Greek seasoning1/2 t. Garlic powder
Chopped fresh parsley, for garnish
Heat oil in large non-stick skillet or wok. Saute onion and mushrooms for 5 minutes until mushroom liquid is evaporated.
Stir in rice and lemon peel.
Combine chicken broth with first amount of water and wine. Add 1/2 cup broth mixture to rice. Cook, stirring constantly, until broth is absorbed. Add another 2 1/2 cups broth mixture, 1/2 cup at a time. Add asparagus. Add remaining 1 1/4 cups broth mixture, in 2 additions. Cook, stirring constantly, until liquid is absorbed and rice is tender and creamy. Ensure that the asparagus is tender. If it isn't, continue stirring on heat until they are.
Add second amount of water. Add the salt, pepper, basil leaves, greek seasoning, and garlic powder; stir. Remove from heat. Sprinkle with parsley. Serve immediately. Makes 5 cups.
Cookin' up a storm,
Not-So-Princess Lizzy
Tuesday, May 14, 2013
Turkey Apple Burgers
Turkey Apple Burgers
1 lb. Lean ground turkey
1 Large egg, beaten
1 c. Finely crushed soda crackers (I used 3/4 c. PaneRiso Rice Bread Crumbs)
1 Finely chopped onion (I recommend using a food processor)
1 Garlic clove, crushed
1 Red apple, with peel, finely diced (I recommend using a food processor for this as well)
1 T. Chopped fresh parsley
3/4 t. Salt
1/2 t. Pepper
Combine all 9 ingredients in large bowl. Form into 6 patties. Broil 4 inches (10 cm) from heat for 10 minutes per side, or grill over medium heat on barbecue. (I pan fried them on medium - high heat for about 4 minutes per side).
I added some stuff to the meal of course. I didn't have any buns, but you can definitely eat these burgers as an actual hamburger patty. I made some Herbed Baby Potatoes. Check out the link to find the recipe.
I also made some tomato salad. This is something my mom used to always make. Super easy. You take a couple tomatoes (depending on how much salad you want), cut them up like you were making Greek salad. Then take some parsley, Italian seasoning, a Tablespoon of Olive oil (or grape seed oil) per tomato Then add some salt and pepper and stir it up. You can add more seasoning or herbs if you would like, but that is pretty much it. So delicious.
You guys have a great day, and perhaps enjoy these delicious meal ideas.
Cookin' Up A Storm,
Not-So-Princess Lizzy
Monday, May 13, 2013
Herbed Baby Potatoes
Herbed Baby Potatoes
2 lbs. Red (or white) baby potatoes (about 40), unpeeled
2 Small onions, cut lengthwise into wedges
1 T. Hard margarine/butter (I use Earth Balance Soy Free)
1 T. Olive oil (I used Grape Seed Oil)
1 T. Lemon juice
1 T. Italian seasoning
1/2 t. Salt
Cut any larger potatoes in half to make all uniform in size. Place in greased 9 x 13 inch baking dish. Add onion.Melt the margarine in small saucepan on medium-low. Add next 4 ingredients. Stir. Pour over potato mixture. Toss until potato mixture is evenly coated with herbs. Cover tightly with foil. Bake at 375 degrees for 40 minutes. Remove foil. Stir. Bake, uncovered, for 10 minutes or until potatoes are tender and golden.
A little herby,
Not-So-Princess Lizzy
Friday, May 10, 2013
Moving Out, and Moving On
Alright, so I originally named this blog A Girl's Step Up because I wanted to move on from the past. Take the few steps needed to get out of the the garbage dump that had become my life. That was when I went to school... and after college I moved back home, I, for the sole purpose of assisting others, willingly jumped back into the mire. I felt God call me to be at home, and it was a learning process that I in turn was blessed by. The time came though, when my dad was released from prison into a halfway house an hour from where I lived with my mom and brother, that I knew it was time to move out and move on.
So what does that mean? Move out and move on. Sounds so final. So unforgiving. It wasn't that at all. I love my family, and even though they put me through hell, and have scarred me for life with issues that I will have to work through, I would move mountains for them.
In reality, all I mean by that statement is leaving the past in the past. Not allowing it to decide our future. My situation could have a double meaning as I did move out of my parents house, and am now living on my own, which I recommend for everyone to do before they decide to get married. I am also moving out of the mind set of accepting my life for what it was, and not actively pursuing a change. I had no idea the amount of damage I had hidden in my heart until I was forced to confront it. A really important person in my life pulled me aside and told me that they had to actively restrain themselves from getting mad at those in my family for the way they treat each other and me. I had no idea there was a better option. I didn't know my family could have tackled life differently.
I had grown up with the thought that people showed love through their love language (whatever that may be) and that they couldn't really change that. This person kindly, but forcefully showed me that I wasn't being met, I wasn't being filled because no one in my family was giving love to me in my love language. They were too caught up in accepting the love that they received to notice that they weren't returning the favor of stepping out of their comfort zone, and perhaps showing love in a way that was different for them.
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| The transition between Spring & Summer - reminding me that when we move on, we get to see more beauty. Spring is more than just cleaning, it is also a glimpse at the beauty to come. |
This wasn't an easy process, and it can't say that my eyes stayed dry, or have been completely dry for weeks now. I decided to get a counselor, which has been so helpful! I have never been so challenged spiritually, emotionally, & relationally, as I have been the last few weeks working through issues that have plagued me my whole life.
I have been learning all over again that I really do need to give everything to God, and trust in Him. I need to find my encouragement in Him and to do that I need to work through the past and look to the future. As I am working through these issues, such as boundaries and abandonment, I am discovering more of who I am as a person, and what I want my future to look like. This verse really impacted me earlier when I read it, and I just wanted to share it with you guys.
"Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of His might. Put on the full armor of God, so that you will be able to stand firm against the schemes of the devil. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. Therefore, take up the full armor of God, so that you will be able to resist in the evil day, and having done everything, to stand firm. Stand firm therefore, having girded your loins with truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and having shod your feet with the preparation of the gospel of peace; in addition to all, taking up the shield of faith with which you will be able to extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.With all prayer and petition pray at all times in the Spirit, and with this in view, be on the alert with all perseverance and petition for all the saints." - Ephesians 6:10-18
Satan will constantly strive to bring us down, to not let us MOVE ON, but we can't let him. We have to stand strong in God, and to do that we need to be prepared. So everyone, drop your past, your sins, your weights that are holding you back. See a counselor or someone that you can truly confide in if you need to, but you got to get rid of that extra baggage if you are going to be able to fight to the end, to finish the race strong.
Feelin' rejuvenated,
Not-So-Princess Lizzy
Thursday, May 09, 2013
Zucchini Patties
I just discovered an amazing recipe and I had to share! They are so good, even though they look quite weird and a little bit disgusting to be honest with you. I had a friend tell me they looked like moldy pancakes. Tehe. These are to die for, especially if you have a chutney sauce. I used a mango chutney sauce my mom made last year, and I am going to have to get that recipe from her because it just made these amazing. So here goes.
Zucchini Patties
3 c. Grated zucchini, with peel
2 Egg whites, fork-beaten
2/3 c. Dry fine bread crumbs (I used 1/2 c. PaneRiso Rice Bread Crumbs - less because rice crumbs becomes really crumbly when there is too much)
1 tsp. Low-fat salad dressing (I used mayonnaise)
2 tsp. Whole wheat flour (I used Jeanne's Gluten Free Flour Mix)
1 Garlic clove, minced
1/8 tsp. Dried oregano (I used Italian Seasoning
1/8 tsp. Dried sweet basil (I used Greek Seasoning)
1/2 tsp. Salt1/8 tsp. Pepper
Combine all 12 ingredients in a large bowl. Mix well to moisten bread crumbs. Form into patties, using 1/4 c. for each. Heat lightly greased frying pan or skillet until hot (medium-high heat). Cook patties for 3 to 4 minutes per side, or until crisp and golden. Makes 12 patties.
Gettin' Healthy,
Not-So-Princess Lizzy
Monday, March 25, 2013
Mod Podging Maps
Since money is tight at our house, I decided to make Nathan (my brother who is now 14) a gift, rather than spending money. Now, he is a Lord of the Rings FANATIC! He has seen the movies a gazillion times, so I knew that I had to do something to do with that. When I saw this though, I knew exactly what I wanted to do!
I went online and searched for Lord of the Rings maps. Now, I am telling you, this was not an easy thing to do! I had to find maps that were decent quality and size, so that if needed I could blow them up bigger. I didn't care if they were black and white, color toned, or sepia because you can always use Picmonkey if needed to alter the appearance of the photo.
I finally found 5 that I sort of liked... I printed them off, and narrowed it down to three.
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| The Realm of Middle Earth |
I then used Picmonkey and altered the background... so they then looked like the following (the large map I kept the same)
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| Mordor Before and After |
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| Thror's Map Before and After |
Thank goodness I somehow made them look alright, and printing them actually made it look better.
Alright, next step, I had to find the canvases to put them on. I decided to use 8"x10" for Mordor and Thror's Map. I wanted to have one bigger map, so I got a canvas that was 11"x14" and went to my church to print the map out onto an 11"x17" page. It took a few tries until I had it the size and shape that I wanted it (had to shrink the shape a tad bit) to be.
After all that, the rest was easy. I did a wash of a yellowish brown color on the background of the canvases, just to give it the aged appearance. Once that was dried I spread Mod Podge all over the canvas with my paint brush and placed my maps down on the canvas, spreading them out, erasing any bubbles. I actually ripped the edges of my maps to give it an interesting look, but you don't have to do that.
To make it even more aged, I spread the top coat of Mod Podge on before the bottom coat was dried, therefore getting the paper too wet, causing it to fade and wrinkle a tad bit. Here is the finished product, and I must say I am extremely happy with it, and so was Nathan... and every other person I showed it to haha.
The Perfect Gift,
Not-So-Princess Lizzy
Friday, March 22, 2013
My Life Story - Part 2
I'll recap from where I left off. My Dad was paying taxes for reasons explained earlier, and so our house got raided... and we moved out temporarily (us kids) to a friends house for a month and a half. This is where our story continues...
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| Waiting is just like winter... it never seems to end |
Wednesday, March 20, 2013
Becoming a True Woman
So what do you think a beautiful woman looks like? Maybe a woman with perfect hair every day, or a stunning face, a perfect body? We define one of the most important terms for a woman with such derogatory and negative definitions, it's no wonder we are so broken and seek the wrong sort of men to make us feel loved.
I read a book recently by Chad Eastham called "The Truth about Guys". Yeah, I know, sounds cheesy, but I really wanted to hear what he had to say about why we think the way we do, and how we need to change our thinking before we find that "Dream Boat" guy us girls always wish for. I found the following excerpt extremely fascinating.
A Girl's Value Menu If you could choose to be either of the following hypothetical girls, which one would you prefer?
Girl A: When a guy looks at you, he thinks most guys don't have a chance. Not because you are too beautiful or because you're mean, but because you don't seem interested in all boys. A guy sees you and knows it is going to take a lot of effort to develop a friendship with you. He's going to have to use his heart and his head if he's going to have a chance at any type of relationship with you. When a guy makes an effort to meet you, he stares into your eyes as though he is trying to see right into your heart. He's there to help you, not harm you. He wants you to know you are really important and he wants the best for you. He compliments you for no reason at all, and he doesn't require something of you at the end of the sentence... or the evening. He looks out for you, even when you aren't looking out for yourself. A guy who spends time with you wants to make you laugh and smile. Seeing you giggle when he looks at you makes him happier than most anything. He simply wants you to know you are wonderful, beautiful, and deserve nothing but the best, with no strings attached. And he doesn't want anything in return for this at all.
Girl B: A guy looks at you and thinks you are a mighty fine piece of meat. He thinks you look like someone that he can try some new stuff with. He knows he doesn't have to marry you in order to get you to do whatever he wants. He's determined to win you over tonight - and by "win" he's only thinking of his own satisfaction and pleasure. He doesn't really care about meeting your needs - especially not in the long run - as long as you can meet his. he wants something from you, and he figures that with minimal effort you'll probably give it to him.
Drum Roll: ...Believe it or not, guys love friendships and relationships, with Girl A! The thing to note her is that you are the person who determines which girl you are seen as. Let me say that again. It's not up to anyone else to make that decision - it's up to YOU!
A girl who displays her sex appeal, a party girl, or a loud-mouthed, insecure girl who is craving a guy's attention all the time likely isn't going to be swept off her feet by a handsome prince who just wants to stare into her eyes all day. Not that you just want to be stared at, but you get the point
Likewise, a girl who doesn't use her body in sexual ways to get attention, one who cares about her reputation and has goals and relationship standards ahead of time, is not going to settle for anything less than someone who cares for her. She refuses to be seen as a target, so guys don't look at her and think she is prey. She has those rules written all over her.
Guys see the instructions for girls ahead of time - before we get within twenty feet of them - so we know if we want to start out on their terms or not. Every girl may want to be seen as valuable, precious, and as someone to be treasured. But in reality, many girls who want to be treasures actually look more like targets; they just can't figure out why!
Remember: you have a heart perfectly designed for you by the greatest of designers. Your heart is there for you to take care of, so when you expose it, it will be cherished and taken care of in return. Allow your heart to be so wrapped up in God that a guy has to ask for directions to get to it
The best guy in the world cannot give you everything you need. He can't be perfect. He can't fill your voids. Most important, none of that is his job. A guy doesn't want a girl who needs him to be her dad. A guy doesn't want to convince you that you are beautiful. He wants to sit in admiration of your beauty! But he can't do that unless you let him. And you can't let him until you believe it yourself!So what do you think? Is Chad right? Do we really need to project ourselves differently, because the way we act is drawing the wrong kind of guys? Are we looking to guys to fill our voids, and we are allowing them to see how broken we are, therefore they are better able to use us and abuse us?
I believe that Chad is completely right! He hit it on the spot. Girls always seem to be needy. We are never perfect enough. There is always someone better, and we are always comparing. Learning to be content with who we are is never easy, but if you want a healthy relationship with the "hero" of your life, that is what you need to do!
We need to search the scriptures, and find out what God desires us to be like, how we are to become a True Woman! Then, and only then, will we begin to see ourselves that way (not vainly, but with honesty)
1 Peter 3:3 says, "Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear."
Do you rely on outward things to feel beautiful? I was challenged last year to fast for a week. I decided that I didn't wish to fast from food, but from makeup. From then on, I have strived to be able to go a day a week, or at least one day in a month without makeup around a boyfriend, your best friends, your work, anywhere. Just go a day without. It may seem hard at first, but ti is so empowering, especially the more you do it. You learn to be beautiful for who you are internally, not just the beautiful on the outside.
On that note, another verse about inner beauty. Galatians 2:20 - I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me." Did you catch that? Christ lives in us, and there is nothing more beautiful or empowering than that. We have life because of Jesus' sacrifice. When we live to let him flourish within us, we glow like never before. It is time you let Christ shine through you!
Monday, March 18, 2013
Jewelry Hangers!
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Feelin' Girly,
Not-So-Princess Lizzy
Sunday, March 17, 2013
Foam Painting
I have a verse this year that I picked that really means a lot to me, something that I want to symbolize and represent me and how I have grown throughout the year. That verse is Jeremiah 17:7-8. It says,














